Tao Yuanming Resigns from Office to Return to Seclusion
Quitting his busy office, leisurely sailed the poet home, Through not spacious, his little cottage pleased him well.
Often he relished poetry and wine by the south window; For the beauty of the mountains he'd go for a lazy stroll.
Asking about: Love
The Story Behind This Stick
Tao Yuanming was a 4th-century Chinese poet who made one of literature's most famous career pivots. After serving as a county magistrate, he famously quit his government job because he refused to bow to a visiting inspector — essentially giving up his pension for his principles. He returned to his family farm, choosing a simple life of growing chrysanthemums and writing poetry over political power and wealth.
His essay 'The Return' became a classic of Chinese literature, celebrating the choice of authenticity over ambition. In Chinese culture, Tao represents the wisdom of knowing when to step back from the rat race and find contentment in simpler pleasures. His story resonates because he chose personal happiness over societal expectations — a radical move in a culture that prized official success.
The Reading
Tao Yuanming walked away from office not because he failed there, but because the version of himself required to succeed had become unbearable to wear. The verse keeps returning to small, real things: the south window, a cup of wine, an unhurried walk toward the hills. Drawing this stick for a question about love is the kaucim's way of asking what version of you is currently doing the dating, the texting, the waiting for replies. If you have been performing a more polished, more agreeable, more strategically casual self, the stick is reflecting back the cost of that performance.
Moderately good, not auspicious — because the path Tao chose was quieter, not easier. In relationship terms, the verse points less to a fated person arriving and more to the conditions under which the right connection can actually take root. Cottages, not palaces. The reading suggests you already sense which interactions leave you fuller and which leave you negotiating with yourself on the way home. The stick is not promising romance on a timeline; it is noting that the chrysanthemums only grow once you stop pretending to want the official garden.
What To Do Next
Look at your last two weeks of messages and notice which threads you answered while genuinely curious, and which you answered while rehearsing. Drop the rehearsed tone in one ongoing conversation this week and see who stays interested in the less-edited you. Stop accepting dates that you'd describe to a friend as 'fine' — that word is doing a lot of hiding.
Spend one evening doing something you'd do alone anyway, and let that be the mood you bring into the next meeting. The chrysanthemums grow slowly; check whether the soil is yours before worrying about who walks through the gate.
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FAQ
- Is Stick #38 (Moderately Good) good or bad?
- "Moderately Good" is a middle-tier fortune. It suggests your situation has room for growth but requires attention and direction. The real value is in the specific guidance — fortune sticks are tools for self-reflection, not prediction.
- How accurate is Wong Tai Sin Stick #38 for love?
- Fortune sticks work as a mirror for self-reflection rather than prediction. If the interpretation resonates with you, that's the stick doing its job — revealing what you already sense but haven't articulated.
- Can I draw fortune sticks for the same question again?
- Traditionally, you should ask about the same matter only once. Drawing repeatedly often means you're seeking the answer you want rather than the guidance you need. To explore different angles, try a different life topic for the same stick number.